Just as there are opportunistic foreign men who take advantage of vulnerable, lonely and desperate Chinese women, there are also desperate Chinese women who take advantage of good-hearted and sincere foreign men at Chinese online dating sites.

Unlike the opportunistic men who go around fucking as many women as possible, these desperate women from China are not intrinsically bad and are really very serious about finding a life partner.
These women are on a dating site because they need to find a husband quickly; This does not mean, however, that they will not be loving and devoted wives. Their hurried need to marry is caused by the immense pressure they are under, by their parents and friends, to do so; They endure this pressure for years, from the moment they reach the age of marriage until they finally settle. The longer they remain single, the heavier they are inclined to quickly find a life partner. Being single for a long time is considered a source of shame for families and becomes a stigma for the single daughter; Other people, or society as a whole, often take this to mean that the daughter is undesirable or unworthy of a husband.
Although less common, some of the pressure to marry may also come from compelling financial obligations with which a woman and her family need help. In today’s China, even in big cities, many marriages still involve the “transmission” of the financial obligations of a woman and her family with her husband. This may seem unfair, and even absurd, to foreign cultures, but it is an accepted practice in the Middle Kingdom. The source of despair for these women does not automatically turn them into gold seekers because, once again, the expectation that the husband will assume financial obligations is acceptable in Chinese society.
These desperate women, however, are not always ahead of themselves about the real reasons they are looking for a husband, especially when they interact with foreign men at Chinese dating sites. Dishonesty, or lack of honesty to be more precise, is the product of their despair and, at the same time, is what makes their behavior deceptive and their intentions seem harmful. And then there is also double that means that some of them employ to achieve their “justifiable” ends.
To increase their chances of finding a man who would like to come to China to meet with them and eventually propose marriage, they usually get involved in multiple relationships online. Until someone proposed, they spent time with these foreign men when they visited him, they even slept with them if they thought they would count against them if they didn’t. They immediately accept the first marriage offer they receive after which all other ongoing relationships end.
As they say, the ends justify the means. While these Chinese women act out of despair and their desire to please their families and society, they end up causing pain to foreign men who have known each other for a long time. Even if they intend to be the devoted and faithful wife to the man they end up with, it could have been so easily one of those other men that these desperate women made promises and then walked away if it had not been him to offer marriage before. That said, it really only serves the purpose of the person who engages in questionable means and pursues his purpose; and when it only affects personal circumstances, the behavior becomes even more unforgivable.
This does not mean, of course, that these Chinese women who are in desperate situations do not care at all that their behavior is wrong. Do not forget that all women in China have grown to be honorable to be a worthy wife. The fact that they are still involved in such dishonest behavior, in itself, indicates their despair. Yes, they are not intrinsically bad women, and no, their desperate circumstances are not excuses to deceive foreign men. But the fact is that they need help and still want to find love and a husband.
The important question to ask is: “These women know that foreign men are much more open than the people around them and, if they are honest about their situation, they are very likely to find among the many men, who they have great admiration for Chinese women, some who would understand them and give them comfort? It is also possible for love to flourish from these honest interactions.

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