When you find your husband or partner looking at online dating sites, it is right to assume the worst and start packing and calling the divorce lawyer.

However, before taking any drastic action you need to take a better look at the online dating scene in general and then find out what you were really doing there – or at least what your intentions were.
Discovering your husbands’ profile on an online dating site is probably the most difficult to deal with because society and its social circle have taught you that this immediately means that you are cheating. Thoughts of infidelity come to mind and then it becomes difficult to really communicate and get to the heart of why it is really to look and sign these types of sites in the first place.
Now let’s take a look at 3 reasons why you might be looking at Internet dating sites
1. There is not enough passion in your existing love life. You are looking for a little more spices.
It is said that men are from Mars and women are from Venus and when it comes to trying to understand why your man does what he does sometimes, I’m sure I don’t need to convince them of how difficult it can be! One contributing factor to why married men look at online dating sites is to do with their ego – and an instinctive need to spread their seed so to speak. That doesn’t mean you literally want to do it – it’s more about the idea and the feeling that it could. Men need to feel in control and this comes into play a lot in scenarios that involve married men and online dating sites.
As much as this may seem like a weak excuse – the fact is that in 9 out of 10 cases the husband has never had any intention of doing anything beyond ‘looking’ and ‘chatting’ and in fact it is the very act of looking at him in First, it will be more than likely to keep him and you faithful for years to come.
2. Your husband is a flirt
Some men are simply flirtatious by nature and simply – Internet dating forums provide a safe place for you to act on this character trait without too much trouble. It is generally the flirtatious man who really doesn’t take it any further – and in most cases they are the ones that can be trusted the most anyway (I would say that since I am a flirtatious guy).
What would you prefer, flirting with people in public and embarrassing yourself too? or that keeps it discreet and online.
3.You will cheat
As much as I would like to sweeten this particular reason why your husband might be looking at online dating sites – the fact is that many men are there because they intend to have extramarital affairs. Each person is different and for some married men, the excitement of a relationship is too much for you and therefore the online option is the easiest and most discreet for him.
There are many reasons why you are thinking in this way and it can be resolved for a long time without the need to involve the courts. Many times this can be seen as an opportunity to find out what does not work in marriage and perhaps bring things back to how they were before. There are a lot of online dating tips that you can read about that talk about this topic a lot and it is my recommendation that you do some homework before making any rash decision.
What your husband is doing seeing dating sites remains to be seen, and if he was with good intentions or villains is not really what you should focus on. The question you have to ask is why – and you honestly have to ask this question together.
Getting to the bottom of what led your man to the site in the first place can open a lot of doors in your own marriage that would otherwise have remained closed. Take this experience and turn it into something that will help your marriage grow, not something that destroys you even more.

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